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Old 11-19-09, 12:50 AM
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Question Divying up responsibilities?

Does DH pitch in and know when to step in?

DH pissed me off tonight, YES he works a second job and that keeps away a couple nights...but does that mean WHEN you are home to be a b(&! just nasty...I handled it and he realized how bad he was ... but seriously..not ok!

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Old 11-19-09, 08:20 AM
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Ugh.. my dh works from home and we've gotten into some pretty big spats over what I expect and how he handles things. I know he's working but geeze he has time to do a lot of non work things but if I make a comment that he needs to wash his dishes from lunch you'd think I personally attacked him.
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He backs down of course but it causes a big stink for a while.


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Gosh I have a list a mile long that I could rant about! LOL

dh and I really need to get in sync with one another. Either he doesn't help when I need him to or he helps when I don't want it and messes up my schedule.
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I don't really say anything when I should. Instead I let it build up, then explode.
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I usually don't mind...but when I'm being called from the tub to being called to the living room and I'm running back and forth between tripping over two dogs who now need to go outside, getting lunches ready, cleaning up from dinner, getting the back pack ready for tomorrow and he's laying on the couch watching TV and gets in a "huff" when I have to ask for his help - when clearly to the normal human eye I need it and
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that I have to ask...
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And I get it, he works really long hours during the fall and winter, but man up get off your
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and pitch in or play with your kids for the 1 hour you will see them for the next couple of days.
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