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Old 11-21-07, 07:56 AM
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you will find it in your heart the way to go!
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Old 11-21-07, 10:16 AM
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Some times I wonder if I'm addicted to the treatments also. That's usually when I take some time off to reevaluate our situation.

"Truth is I want two things-I want to experience pregnancy and I want a family"

Then don't give up until you have no other choice. Keep at it as long as the money and your sanity hold out, or until your wants change.

If you adopt now, you will not have the resources to ttc. Kids are amazing and wonderful, but they suck all the money time and energy out of your life. So make sure your are 100% O.K. with never experiencing pg before you go down that road. Ask yourself "would I regret it if I didn't do everything I could to get pg". If you can't say no without hesitation, then your not ready to stop yet.

Someone once told me that the things that are most important to us, we find a way to accomplish. Keep an open mind and explore every possibility no matter how unrealistic it may seem. Could you change jobs to get one with IF coverage? Would you be willing to move to be closer to treatments? Would you be willing to take a year or 2 off and save $$ for IVF. Or, is it more important to be a mom now?

It's hard to make these decisions when your in the midst of an active cycle. I know you had talked about taking off dec. Maybe that's the time to do some soul searching.
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