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  • Keepers Keepers's Avatar 10-10-08 | 02:21 PM
  • I never thought I would be posting a thread on this page but here I am and there is nothing that I could do about it. I was wondering how everyone moves past this hurt and anger.
    Would it be so obsurd if we were to give our chemical baby a name? I realize that it wasnt an actual pregnancy but to me it was. Although for a short time I feel like I need something to keep of it. Have any of you done this or do you think it is crazy?
  • wendysue611 wendysue611's Avatar 10-10-08 | 02:36 PM
  • LeAnn I don't think it's crazy at all. I remember how I felt when I found out that I had a chemical pregnancy. You have a lot of different emotions that you go through. I like to think I've got a little angel up above even though it happened so quickly.

    Do whatever you feel is right. You will need time to heal from your loss. Be selfish and do a few things just for yourself. However you need to grieve is okay.

    I'll be thinking of you...
  • countrycutieluv countrycutieluv's Avatar 10-10-08 | 03:12 PM
  • No LeAnn it's not.I was just thinking the same as well.I still have moments where I grieve.We were pregnant though for a short moment.To me I need to recognize that,I don't think your crazy at all....we need to deal with it however we need to.


    I have included edd on my siggy but don't know when I can bring myself to name her,I'm sure I will in time.
    I noticed with me I have started to indulge myself in exercise.....I hate exercise but now I do it all the time.I guess it's my little way of escape.
    I just don't know how to or if I should tell my kids.That I guess will come with time.
    I'm here for you,we are all here for each other.
  • Laurie Laurie's Avatar 10-10-08 | 03:32 PM

    It is not crazy to name your baby, chemical or not. I had a miscarriage of whatever it is you call a pregnancy without a baby grwing in the sac...I saved the sac and Corey and I had a cremation
  • Keepers Keepers's Avatar 10-10-08 | 04:14 PM
  • Thank you for all your support!