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Old 12-06-04, 09:06 AM
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Unhappy Sad Anniversary

Today is the 3 year anniversary of the loss of my first baby.
I think people think I'm crazy when I am sad about it. But I can't help but imagine what baby would have been like.. how she (I thought it was a girl) would look etc. Although I was only 11 weeks along it was an eternity because she was so wanted.

I guess I just needed to vocalize/type out my feelings for today because I don't want to bring it up to Jim. Not that he wouldn't be sympathetic but I know he doesn't know the actual date and I don't want to *remind* him ya know??
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Old 12-06-04, 02:41 PM
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You're not crazy honey-I think of my lost babies all the time. I'm so sorry for your loss.
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Old 12-06-04, 02:44 PM
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I think if my lost baby a lot too and June 1 will be 4 years. My DD was Dec 25 last year was really hard for me because Brooke was due Dec 30 and I was happy but sad too KWIM? Sorry to make this about me.

I just wanted you to know you're not crazy or alone for having these feelings.
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Old 12-06-04, 06:35 PM
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I purposely avoided looking at the date for days after both of my m/c's, and I still don't know exactly what the dates were. I figured it would be better to not have a specific day to be sad for who knows how long. However, my DD's are going to be very tough.
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Old 12-06-04, 09:04 PM
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You know that WE don't think you are crazy. Those days are always really hard. You just can't help but wonder "what if..."

Take care of yourself.
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