Ugg I'm frustrated! After a Loss Message Board

countrycutieluv · 05-05-10, 07:41 PM

I'm finally feeling hopeful! RE said so far everything is normal,my protine S is on the low end but would prescribe Heprin/baby asprin and progestrone with pregnancy.I'm ok with that...I feel that is a good precautionary measure.

The only thing left to really check is my linning of my uterus for a possible infection and LP defect,though he likes my temps from last month.

He wants me to get the biopsy done this month so that means no TTC!

I understand why but I'm struggling with the waiting,patients isn't my strong suite
Dh will be deploying mid August and wont be back till January so the due date would be perfect!

So am I horrible to want to ttc instead of getting the biopsy?
In all reality what would you do? Honestly?

Ugg I need to be smacked

LAB · 05-05-10, 10:24 PM

I'm sorry you need to wait! I'd want my DH home that last month. Babies can come early and when you are huge and barely able to function its nice to have another adult to lean on!

Laura

countrycutieluv · 05-05-10, 11:46 PM

Thank you laura!
I didn't even think of the need to have dh around that last month. I'm thankful that dd and ds are old enough to help but not like having dh around.
Not too worried about a baby coming early,I have been induced with both but this next one will probably be the one to prove me wrong.
Ugg I'm getting so impatient now!

koala_kaper · 05-06-10, 01:34 PM

I know what you mean about needing to be smacked! I'm the same way! Sorry you are supposed to wait, waiting sucks. BUT just to be sure about everything you probably should wait it out that one more month. Just think, the more you know now, the better off you'll be later and hopefully you'll be holding a beutiful little baby in your arms in no time!

Oreo · 05-10-10, 08:57 PM

Better wait and have a better chance at a healthy bean than another miscarriage.

Harsh, I'm sorry, but better to wait than be heartbroken again.