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What should have been...

What should have been...

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  • Dopey406 Dopey406's Avatar 06-08-08 | 08:39 AM
  • I usually try to focus on what IS instead of what SHOULD be...but this weekend we should have been celebrating Sam's first birthday.
    He'd probably be signing lots of words, trying to walk, and loving his big sisters. Instead, we cleaned the house yesterday and I counseled an FPU family for 2.5 hours. NOT what I thought I'd be be doing.

    A friend of mine's daughter turned two this week and every time she has a birthday, I think of Sam. Before he died, we'd talked about how fun it would be to celebrate their birthdays together.

    I miss my angels a lot this weekend.




Thank you TTUAlison!
Dopey406 (06-09-08)
  • Oreo Oreo's Avatar 06-08-08 | 11:06 PM
  • I know what you mean. I saw a baby born right after my due date the other day...



    I hope we get to bring these dreams to fruition soon.

    Wish I could change the "could have beens" for us both! BTW-- you'd be living lots closer if I could!!
Thank you Oreo!
Dopey406 (06-09-08)
Thank you tiaonia!
Dopey406 (06-09-08)
  • **Jennifer** **Jennifer**'s Avatar 06-09-08 | 09:00 AM
  • I'm so sorry for your losses!
Thank you **Jennifer**!
Dopey406 (06-09-08)