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alb526 11-25-08 11:57 AM

sad time of year
 
I'm having a rough go of it this week. We are in the middle of TTC,C6. I'm trying to focus on being optimistic but this time of year is really hard. I lost a PG several years ago on Thanksgiving day. I was 2 months along and felt fine, we were spending the holiday on an island with family. I started spotting mid-day but with the tide up was I unable to get out and to the mainland until the next morning. It was a truly horrifiying experience, very painful and emotionally the worst out of 4 MCs. I lost another baby 6 weeks along one mid-December day also so the holidays are bitter-sweet. DH and I haven't talked about it yet this year but he remembers that awful Thanksgiving too and TTC in the middle of my TWW, I can't seem to get it out of my mind.

krisyb 11-25-08 01:02 PM

i'm so sorry. i am kinda in the same boat as you are right now, in 13 days (dec 9, the day before my bday) i was supposed to be giving birth to my first child, it gets some much harder as the due date draws closer. I mc @ 2 months 2 days & 2 weeks. me & dp have been trying for 5 months now nothing yet but on dec 10 (my bday) i can do a pgt and hopefully i get a bfp!

good luck & babydust!

saffy 11-25-08 04:08 PM

:bighug: Amy I'm so sorry that you are having to remember this. It is so hard especially now ttc. My first m/c was 17 years ago and my last one was this past July. They both feel like yesterday. I hope you get your :bfp: soon.

Saf

ChandyRae 11-29-08 05:12 PM

I'm sorry. The ones associated with holidays are the worst ones. I hope you can find peace and joy during this season. :bighug: And maybe Santa will bring you an extra little something in your stocking. :)

Eskie 11-29-08 05:42 PM

I wish you positive thoughts and vibes during this cycle. I can't imagine how your mind must struggle during this few weeks.

I only wish you get a + in your stocking so that you will have a positive thought to help balance as time passes.


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