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ChandyRae 12-01-08 08:38 PM

Really scared
I got three marvelous positive pregnancy tests today... but I'm barely able to be excited about it, I'm so scared. I've done this so many times, I think four, (I purposely stopped counting) where I get what I think is a positive test and then a couple days later I start bleeding (I was further along with my first m/c). AF is supposed to be due tomorrow, and I just keep thinking that I'll start bleeding at any moment... I know in a week I'll really be able to believe it and enjoy it, but for now I'm so nervous that I'm worried the stress will CAUSE a miscarriage! :tdown1:

Oreo 12-01-08 08:47 PM

Well, congrats on your :bfp: That is awesome.

My gyno/ob told me that if you can get pg, then you are luckier than 50% of women or more...

So, relax and breathe and give this bean a chance to burrow in deep and grow, grow, grow.

I hope this is it!!! :hug:

Dopey406 12-01-08 09:05 PM

I know how you feel. I have had 5 miscarriages so I understand the feeling of waiting for the other shoe to drop. But Oreo is right--to achieve pregnancy is an amazing miracle.

I have a good feeling about this one for you. :hug:

countrycutieluv 12-01-08 11:10 PM

Chandra I have a good feeling about this too.I know I haven't had but one loss but with this pg I didn't get really excited till I missed af.I'm still a little heasitent until I get my blood test and u/s.I know deep down its ok (positive thinking) but still I'm just waiting for that blow to ruin the high.
Just sit back and enjoy it......:bighug:

alb526 12-02-08 06:10 PM

I'm sorry Chandra. Please know you are not alone. With 4 early mc's I am stressed out too. I wish there was something to relax us both. I'm open to suggestions. I'm driving myself nuts everytime I go to the bathroom.