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alliwantisababy 12-03-09 09:44 AM

New to site. Now in my two week wait...
Hi my name is Wendy and I am 19 years old. I have been extremely depressed since I lost my first pregnancy at 12 weeks along. I had to get a d&c and I just want a baby so bad that I can't heal until I get pregnant again but it hasn't been happening as quickly as I thought it would. I had my miscarriage in September and have been trying since the end of Septemeber but no luck yet... I really hope this month is the month but it is so hard to be optimistic. Can anyone relate or have anything to share?

savannah33 12-03-09 09:47 AM

Welcome to TBC.

I'm sorry for your loss. My story is much like yours with a loss at 10 weeks and a d&c. I had fertility issues on top of it and had been TTC for 19 months before I got pregnant the first time. I got pregnant quickly after the d&c and had a full term baby and went on to have 2 more children.

I hope that you get the :bfp: you are wishing for this month.

alliwantisababy 12-03-09 09:50 AM

Thank you very much! And congrats on your children : )

countrycutieluv 12-03-09 11:12 AM

I understand your depression. My story is a little different. I have two children and trying for more after a tubal reversal. After the reversal it took me 7 months to get pregnant then I lost that one at 5.5wks then the after 6 months I got pregnant again lost that one.Well lets just say there is some testing that I need to have done before trying again. I do understand the pain of loss and the hurry up and waiting to get pregnant again. I sure hope you your :bfp: soon!
:hug: I'm sorry for your loss

Oreo 12-03-09 09:52 PM

Waiting is never easy and feeling like you should be able to make something happen makes it even harder. I've had three babies and 2 losses. Each month we tried and didn't get the BFP, it was just plain misery.
I try to console myself by thinking that if I never had the loss or the months of dissappointment, I wouldn't have the same people I have now and i wouldn't have the same level of appreciation for them.
It takes time, but if you've gotten pregnant rather easily once, it should happen again for you.
Good Luck! May your wait be a short one and your time trying lots of fun.