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countrycutieluv 03-09-10 04:28 PM

2nd RE appointment Tomorrow!What should I ask?
I wanted to maybe get some idea's from you ladies on what I should ask.
I don't want to botch this one up like I did the last one.
The RPL tests on me have already been done and are normal....So what should I ask? I want to have a healthy baby SOON!
On a side not tomorrow is my due date with my second loss....I hope I don't loose it there>>

Dopey406 03-09-10 04:51 PM

I lost it in my RE's office the first time. So don't sweat it--unfortunately, I think it's part of their jobs. :(

I would ask about the DNA Decondensation Test for DH. That was our problem and after many, many other tests proved "normal", this was the one that gave us the answer. Very shortly after, we conceived our son through IUI and he just turned one. And given the line of work your husband is in, I think it's DEFINITELY a possibility to explore.


Mark'sbabygirl 03-09-10 04:54 PM

Hmmm... they haven't checked the quality of your eggs yet, have they? I was put on clomid and they checked blood levels on certain days of my cycle while on it to see my ratio of good eggs to bad ones. I also know that my levels of prolactin were high which gave me a higher chance of miscarriage. That was another blood test. Let us know what happens!!!

Mark'sbabygirl 03-09-10 04:55 PM

Oh, and I LOST it in my RE's office too.... we all understand!

3Princes 03-09-10 04:55 PM

In addition to what Deanna said, I think it's important to have a plan in place. I'd want to know what the re's plan was, at least the next tests (if any) to bedone, and what protocol will be used to try to help you conceive. That was comforting to me when things didn't work; I knew already what the next step was (even if the next step was to try the same thing again, or tweak meds, etc).