These last few months have been crazy for me. Things are still not final with the divorce. But we have been legally seperated since Jan. This has been the most ridiculous thing ever. Just this month they finally got child support situated. He was only paying me 400 a month when he makes 5,000 a month. He tried three times not claiming one source of his income so he wouldnt have to pay that much well they finally caught up with him on it. I have the boys during the weekend and he gets three weekends out of the month. I had to file a DVP (domestic violence petition) and assault charges on him after he busted in the door and the door hit me in the face and arm spraining my wrist. Still waiting to hear on the assault charges but right now I have a 180 day DVP on him. He has done everything to try and chase me down in the car. To making false CPS complaints on me none of which has worked for him. He also had my vehicle voluntarily repossessed. But through all of this I met someone amazing he treats me and the boys wonderfully has two kids of his own and they all four get along. The boys are doing great though, we are getting Logen ready for school. Braxton is my ham we are working on potty training yea thats fun. We are also trying to get ready to move I decided to allow him to have the house. 1 I cant afford the house payments on my own. 2 I want to go somewhere where I dont have all of the bad memories that I have here. I am still in school almost done graduate in January. I have to say despite all of the hell he has tried to put me through I am happier than I have been in a long time. I didnt realize I was as miserable as what I was. My sister hugged me the other day and said I am glad I finally have my sister back she said she hasn't seen me smile like this in years.

So great to hear from you Kristi! Thanks for the update!

So glad to hear from you! I am very very sorry for all that you have been and are going through. I am however so glad to hear you are happy and that the boys are doing well.

If soon to be ex-DH was any kind of man, he'd pay you whatever you need to care for the boys and keep them safe and stable. That he is fighting it (to me) speaks volumes towards his character. It should make you feel vindicated in your decision to move on from his abuse!

Wishing you and your kiddos all the best. Awesome news on school as well. Keep smiling and working so hard and good things will continue to follow.

Thanks for the update. Glad to hear you found someone who treats you w/ respect. GL w/ everything!

I'm sorry for everything you have had to endure but it sounds like you're on the right path and I'm happy that things are working out and you feel so great!.