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Payday1989 · 08-11-12, 07:17 PM

When you started dating your boyfriend, now husband; when did you say "I love you" or tell him how you felt? Did he say it first and if you did, how did you did it?

Dopey406 · 08-13-12, 12:46 PM

Ours was early on, before we were even dating.

We were very close friends for a while before we started dating so we knew pretty early that there was something special there. So when we started dating, it was really easy. He told me first that he loved me--he made no bones about loving me and knowing that we were meant to be. I was a bit slower on the pick-up but once I realized it, we've been together since. We've been an official couple for 15 years, married for 11.

MrsS1stbaby · 08-13-12, 12:57 PM

The right time is when you feel it and can't keep it in!

In March 2000, my husband and I had been dating for about a month when he told me how he felt. And I told him I felt the same way. We got engaged 10 months later in 2001. We married in 2003 and just celebrated our 9 year anniversary.

Payday1989 · 08-15-12, 11:34 AM

We have been dating for about 3 weeks and I'm starting to get those feelings and they are so much different than I ever felt with my son's dad, but we all know that situation with the abuse and cheating. And now I'm even more scared the fact that I still have not receieved AF!

And test yesterday came back BFN, so do you think it could be early on still and just not reading it right?

Dopey406 · 08-15-12, 12:09 PM

Whoa! Three weeks is kinda quick--does he know you might be pregnant?

And if he does, how does he feel? Have you discussed this possibility or what you both want in the future? I would be really sad to see you hurt again.