When is the right time?

Payday1989 · 08-15-12, 12:49 PM

No he doesn't know, I'm not sure if I want to tell him cause I don't want to scare him, but it's something we want in the future.

Payday1989 · 08-16-12, 05:35 PM

Well GOOD NEWS!!!!

I got my period yesterday, happy I got it, but cramps are horrible! And this sounds so teenageish, but last night I was at his house and he said a smarta** comment and I asked what? And he said nothing, I love you. And I didn't say anything!!!! I was speechless, but had a smile

And then it happened twice today before I left. I did say it to him, but I don't know if he heard me. Am I wrong for not saying it back right away? And I feel as though he said it more than once that he meant it, but I am so scared because of my past relationship with my son's father. I know you shouldn't bring past into present and future, but it just scares me.

Payday1989 · 08-16-12, 05:36 PM

O and today after I got AF, I told him that I was late and took a test yesterday, but he didn't seem to mind.

MrsS1stbaby · 08-16-12, 10:26 PM

No, I don't think it's bad that you hestitated....people say it too quickly sometimes, it can almost be a auto-response. If when you say it, you mean it, then that is all that matters.

Glad AF came to a visit! Now would be a good time to discuss with him that while you are starting to have strong feelings for him, but are defintely NOT ready to be making babies with him, so you will need to come up with some form of birth control, whether it be condoms, the pill, the shot, the ring, whatever.