I guess I can see getting to help pass out the snack *you* brought, but getting to do everything first seemed a little extreme to me. I also get the birthday thing too, and of course if you have a summer birthday then you never get that either (which isn't as big a deal IMO). Life isn't fair but I don't think we need to make sure 3 year olds know that.

I told dh last night that Josh should give his friend his turn the next time, but he doesn't go back till December!

I'm just underwhelmed in general with a lot of the stuff this teacher does. Josh is happy there so I shouldn't care, but I'm all done with the "parent pleaser" art projects and would love for him to learn some games, use his imagination, etc.