Uh-- no church. No pastor. Hawaii sounds kind of good. It's an excuse to go there someday
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If I thought my dad wouldn't be an a$$hole with her, I'd let him have her. I wish I had them both.

I'm not really all that keen on the thought of the ashes as still being the person and to me, having her creameted was enough for the honoring of her wishes. What to do with the ashes is all about me and how *I* want to have her remembered.
If your grandma was such a persnickety person, then perhaps she deserves her ashes stuck in 'limbo' so to speak.
I can't imagine a cold urn to be any better than sprinkled on the ground
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I'd take her to the tropics and bury her ashes.

(or what I'd do personally, is hire an airplane service to scatter ashes from the air
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I imagine that the ashes would float around in the air creating rainbows and lovely sunsets for a great while before settling down on the ground)

I agree!! Good excuse for a tropical vacation!

Just about everything is going to end up in the water or on the ground eventually....

I like the idea of going up in a plane and letting the ashes fly in the wind... like freedom!