speak your mind or just go with the flow ??

When you have an argument with someone do you let it all out or hold it all in ??

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It depends....I used to be sort-of a hot-head and got into a lot of trouble in school and even at a few jobs, although I never got fired over it. It wasn't until I started working in the corporate world that I learned to bite my tongue. I find myself holding it in a lot more now, even with my Dh. If something really bothers me, I might fly off the handle, but normally I wait until I can convey my thoughts rationally and without attitude. (I was always labeled by teachers as having an "attitude problem". Thankfully, when Dh met me, he saw it as being sassy!) Like I used to b*itch at the baggers/cashiers in the grocery store when they were throwing my stuff around and bagging "incorrectly", but now I realize it's not worth my time to snap at some 15 year old who doesn't want to be there anyway.

I am terrible at debate. So I usually hold it in, unless I know I am burning with correctness, with backup references, then I open it all up.

I will fight until I'm blue in the face with Mike... but with anyone else I let them run all over me.

depends on who it is. Most people get all of it from me. I let almost everything go with my parents (not that there is much to let go). It isn't worth it to me, they are in their mid 70's.