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Old 09-18-08, 05:33 PM
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The longing for another baby?? First let me say I havent been on babycorner for MONTHS so Im sorry to come on here and just whine, but I really need to vent and I think dh has hit his limit with me this week and I cant talk to family cause they just dont get it.....so anyways I have three kids I ADORE and I know I am so lucky to have....thing is I REALLY want another one, I am one of 4 myself so I dont know if that is what it is or just the #4 sounds so perfect to me, but anyways dh does NOT feel the same, he had a vasectomy after our daughter was born, I wasnt happy about it but I agreed to it because he was so adament....ok so that was almost 7 years ago now and I am still craving another baby SO much, we (me mostly) have talked about adoption or vsec reversal but I feel like dh just isnt into it and that makes me sad
 
so ok as to why I decided to pop on here after months and vent to you guys.....my af was due on Sept. 13th, she didnt show I feel like I had a bunch of symptoms (of coarse its easy to make this stuff up in your head to when you want it so bad) then I take this weird pregnancy test that at first seems like its not working (like no reading at all) then when I look at it later (and yes I KNOW you arent supposed to go back and look later) and there are 2 lines there.....so ok Im stupid and I get my hopes all up and go buy another pregnancy test to take today and of coarse its BFN
 
WHY do I do this to myself?? dh had the vsec 7 years ago and nothing so why do I even let myself get excited like that? This is NOT the first time Ive done this to myself either....so after all that rambling my question is do you think it will ever go away?? The longing for another baby I mean....I guess if we are on the baby dreaming board probably not
 
but I figured of all the boards you guys would maybe understand my little rant the most...so let me apologise again for popping on like this and ranting but thank you to anyone who took the time to read it and who maybe understands
 

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Old 09-18-08, 05:42 PM
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No, it hasnt gone away for me and I doubt it will.
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Old 09-18-08, 05:50 PM
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No, the feeling never went away. My DH didn't do anything permanent though and I just kept praying that he'd change his mind and he did this summer! It took 5 years. Now I'm sure he's wondering what we got ourselves into as I've been so sick this pregnancy
 


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I'm not sure. I've been trying to squelch the desire.
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