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  • koala_kaper koala_kaper's Avatar 01-01-09 | 01:02 PM
  • Dh actually brought up TTC again last night. We might be weird, but we talk a lot while dtd, not usually about stuff like this, but last night was one of "those" nights, so we did

    First he asked me if it was a "safe day" and I told him no (although right now I'm not completely sure,so no was probably the right answer!) A couple minutes later he asked me when I wanted to start ttc again. I thought for about 2 seconds and said I don't know and kinda got a sad feeling
    A little later he's like, "Is it too soon then?" So I kinda shrugged. He told me that's ok and it's up to me bc I'm the one that has to carry and be pg and everything, plus I'm the one that stays home and all...

    So I don't know what's going on there at the moment...

    BUT I do know we aren't going to TTC in Feb bc that would put us due around hunting season and that would NOT be a good thing! I'm not sure if I want to start ttc next cycle or in March. I'm almost thinking March, BUT what if baby comes early and comes while dh is hunting? But I don't know that I can wait until April!

    Anyone have opinions or advice? I'm sure you think I'm
    but we want a big family and we want our kids to be close, if that makes sense.