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  • Keepers Keepers's Avatar 09-16-08 | 08:35 PM
  • Jeanne I am so glad you posted this!!! I was beginning to think I was a
    for being jealous. I know this month has been tough for you but I hope at the end of the month your world changes and you find out you are carrying a JuneBug.
  • amitrat amitrat's Avatar 09-16-08 | 09:00 PM
  • Jeanne - don't appologize for how you're feeling! We are all routing for you for a 3rd baby! Keep us posted!
  • 3Princes 09-16-08 | 09:21 PM
  • Excuse the ramble in advance...

    I don't know. I need drugs or something. The weirdest thing happened to me this time around. I was devastated, like for 5 days I think thinking that it was all over; I would never be a mom. Crying all the time-- it was almost like a death-- I know that doesn't make sense but like the void of the child I thought belonged in our family.
    Then, the next day (after the 5ish days) I woke up and suddently I felt better. I felt like those little things people say to make you feel better. I felt like "It's going to happen somehow. YOu just have to be patient and see how it's all going to come together." I know though, that for me it doesn't just "happen." Hence, the "wishful thinking" post. I have to chase after it, but I'm so not into all that fertility stuff right now. So I guess I'll just have to see how I feel when af gets here.
    Thanks ladies!

  • pearlgirlulm pearlgirlulm's Avatar 09-17-08 | 11:19 AM
  • I think what you are feeling on here is completely normal. Sometimes it is hard for me to be on this board. I get jealous a lot too. Especially when you see someone joing and this is their first month of TTC and then they find out like a couple days later they are pregnant. It is HARD. I have been trying to get pregant for 57 months. I have never had a month where I have came close or seen a test with a BFP. So sometimes it is hard to write congrats to someone on here. However, I do try. I do not want my family and friends to be scared to tell me about their joyous news (not that any of you are like this.) I am strictly speaking for me.

    This board has helped to overcome this and be happy that one more person has made it out of this he** hole we call infertility. I try to look at every success story as one more person who made it out. One more person that can help us and research to see what works.

    Last edited by pearlgirlulm; 09-17-08 at 11:21 AM..
  • Keepers Keepers's Avatar 09-17-08 | 11:26 AM
  • Good Perspective!!!