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hopeful7 09-22-08 11:15 AM

All the things you don't want to hear...
I get so sick and tired of everyone's suggestions/input on getting pregnant. If I hear these things one more time I'm gonna explode!!!!!!

1. Just be patient and it will happen
2. It's just not the right time
3. You must not be doing it right
4. Just relax
5. You're trying too hard
6. It will happen

I personally feel that if you haven't gone through infertility then you can not relate because you really have no idea.

saffy 09-22-08 11:49 AM

Stephanie, {{{hugs}}}
Explode away and know we are here to listen and be there for you.

Mark'sbabygirl 09-22-08 01:31 PM

My favorite (and I've heard it too) is the "You must not be doing it right" HELLLLLLLLLOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!! I think we all know how to do it!, LOL!

tiaonia 09-22-08 01:45 PM

3. You must not be doing it right???

people actually say that? what do they think we are

pearlgirlulm 09-22-08 02:31 PM

Oh my gosh!! I agree with you 100 %. If you are not experiencing infertility, then you have no idea. If you get a chance you should read a blog


I think that is it. If not go to my blog. http//

and on there click the link that says a successful infertility. This chick blogs for Redbook and she talks about infertility. She is so funny. The only problem is you will have to go back to the beginning of her blogs because after her second round of IVF she is finally pregnant. There is this one blog in October 18, 2007 where she talks about what not to say to someone who is experiencing this....It makes me laugh everytime. She is so funny. Kind of a potty mouth but if you can look past it, she is great.