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Old 11-29-04, 12:59 PM
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When the embryologist called this a.m., I thought for sure we'd be having a 3 day transfer. We have 10 embies in the 6 to 9 cell range right now and my RE said she would only put TWO (!) 3-day embies back. I think that is just stupid and would want to put back at least three and probably four!!!! But they will not do that.
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They said because I have been pg twice with this donor, putting back that many is way too risky for multiples (plus my fibroids). The embryologist said, "Maddy, there is no way I could pick 2 from these 10. Of course I'd pick the 9 cell and one of the 8 cells, but what if it's one of the 6 cells that is destined to be your pregnancy?"
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I guess she has a good point.

I'm really ok with the decision and this way the best embies will make theirselves known to us (as my embryologist puts it). I have been pg before on a blast transfer, now I just have to pray that the embryologist picks out the right one(s) on Wed. My RE probably will not let me put back 3 blasts, so it will more than likely be 2 again. I think if this IVF cycle does not work we are gonna beg and plead to be way more aggressive on IVF#4!!!

Please wish me luck!! DP and I have asked our 10,000 angels
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that have been watching over our little embies to help guide the embryologist to the one (or two) meant to be our baby.
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I can imagine your frustration - I would probably want 3 or 4 put back too, but there is always that chance that all of them would implant!!!
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GOOD LUCK! It's gotta work. I just know it. One time a woman I made friends with in the waiting room practically made them put 5 embies back in her...they said no at first but she said this is my last try...they thought she wouldn't get pg. Anyway, she got pg w/ quads. The worst part is that all 4 were perfect and healthy and she decided to reduce to 2 cuz they couldn't handle 4. I would never judge but I remember being on the other end of the phone when she told me that and I sobbed. Anyway listen to your doc...the 2 will stick and you'll get healthy twins and all will be good.

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