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Old 01-18-05, 12:15 AM
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Absolutely!! I remember the first time my due date rolled around for my first pregnancy (my ectopic from an IUI) and I was so incredibly sad that I thought I was going to die from being so heartbroken. Then my sadness turned into rage because NOBODY called me and said that my little angel was in their thoughts. Of course, later I realized that is ridiculus for anybody to remember something like that and I felt really silly. DP said she didn't want to talk about it because I was so upset that day.

I still cry for each loss that I've had and I'm sure I always will.

I'm so sorry you are feeling bad this week. I know the heartbreak and am thinking of you.
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Old 01-18-05, 07:21 PM
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Oh, Susanne! I'm so sorry I'm just seeing this now, I wish I had replied sooner. Of course you were sad, that makes perfect sense. I guess I'm lucky...I've blocked out all my due dates. I can calculate them if I want, but I always stop myself the moment I start. It's just way, way too painful to bear.

I'm thinking of you and sending you big hugs. You know you can call me any time!!
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Old 01-19-05, 10:04 PM
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Susanne, I'm sorry due dates get you down. I, like Sarah, block them all out. One day I was incredibly sad and I realized it was a due date. It's as if even though I didn't mentally acknowledge the situation my body was mourning. Basically the reason I can't let myself get down is because I'd be down every month. I've had too many failed cycles and too many m/cs.

Feel better.
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Old 01-20-05, 12:09 AM
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You ladies are simply the very best. Thank you so much for your kind words.

I don't think it helped much AF actually showed on the exact day. How wicked is that?

I feel much better now that it's come and gone.

Thanks again... you all are so dear to me.

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