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Old 05-31-06, 03:30 AM
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I'm so sorry for your loss Stacy
 
I totally understand you needing to lie low for a while, we're here for you whenever you need us. You're in my thoughts and prayers.
 
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Old 05-31-06, 01:09 PM
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Oh Girl.....do whatever you need to do...this really really sucks and is unfair and as you said, "cruel". Whatever you need....post when and if you are ready.

XOXO, Bonnie
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Old 05-31-06, 01:33 PM
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Stacy, alot of us already have experienced what you are going through. I think what helped me was coming up with a plan B and a plan C while I was pursuing plan A. I always felt I needed something to fall back on. I'm not saying my plan Bs and Cs were realistic but psychologically, I felt there was something to cushion my fall from a plan A failure.

If you need to talk about getting through this or about other options at Cooper, just send me an e-mail or PM.

I'm so sorry.

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Old 05-31-06, 08:19 PM
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Stacy, I am so very sorry for your loss. I have been there several times myself and it does feel like a very cruel joke. Like Glind said, it's always good to have plan B and C in the works.

We started the fost/adopt process and I used to sit in those classes with such a heavy heart and was so depressed that I couldn't even really listen to what they were saying. I always thought I'd never have to pay attention because, dammit, I was going to conquer my infertility!! For me, IVF became a game and I lost sight of the baby aspect of it all. I am so glad we had a plan B.

I am thinking of you and again am so very, very sorry*
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Old 06-01-06, 08:57 AM
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Stacy, so very sorry. There are not enough words to say to help you out. We have all been there, I know that does not help you right now but hopefully you won't give up your hopes and dreams. Please take care of yourself and we will be here if you need to talk, vent, cry, scream. You are entitled.
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