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Old 03-20-09, 07:05 PM
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Question is she acting right...?

Expecting father here...don't know where to begin.


This is my first and my fiance gloria's second child. We are engaged, and the baby is due around sept 12th

I treat her like no one else I have ever treated, I truly love her and wait on her hand and foot, for ANYTHING she needs, for her or her son

Before the pregnancy, we were truly one, and we were the 2 happiest people together. When we found out she was pregnant that only brought more joy to both of us.

People say its normal, but her moods/the way she acts is out of control, she will always end up saying the worst thing possible, which sometimes leads to a smart comment by me which only hurts the situation more.

I have heard pregnant woman get horny and some don't, but at some point most do...it isn't even about the sex(which is non-existent) but its the way it is when I touch her, I can tell she doesn't want to be touched.(before we were more like jack-rabbits, so this is a major change as well)

So I ask, am I to blame for some stuff, I really was looking for this girl my whole life and we spent and amazing part of our life together, but now more then ever, all we do is fight, bicker, and end up not talking or along those lines...what more can I do?


 
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Old 03-20-09, 11:37 PM
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Some women are like that when pregnant. I happen to be one of them! I REALLY don't like sex when I'm pregnant, I don't feel "in the mood" and I just feel BIG and unattractive. And when dh "touches" me, I always feel he wants it to lead to something more than just a snuggle or hug (it's not always true, just seems like it more when I'm pg!)

Oh, and I'm TERRIBLE when I'm pregnant in the mood department. I always have a VERY short temper. Dh can be trying to be nicer than ever, and i will explode over the dumbest thing! It's horrible!

I think the worst is always the first and last trimester, but it might just be me. Just keep treating her well and know that things will get better soon!
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Thank you koala_kaper!
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Old 03-23-09, 10:47 AM
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Thanks,
We have really been having our differences, and I just want her to know that I am there for her...We had a "romantic" evening last night so shes trying to keep me happy. I feel when I do touch her she does in a way think am going for more even if I just have my hand on her leg or hand. Hopefully thing will get better...I can say I do have Couvades...
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