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  • Perez 11-10-17 | 05:48 PM
  • Yo! If you feel responsible enough to have sex, you should be responsible enough to have proper and safe sex. I think it's time for you to discuss this with your doctor. Let him be completely in on this. Don't hide anything. Tell him all about it. You don't want an unplanned pregnancy, right? Also, I'm not sure if your BF had a sex before (unsafe)... if he had, he might need to be checked up too just to make sure he has no sexual diseases that he could have passed on to you. You don't want those either, do you?

    Hope all goes well!
  • BelkisOcasio 11-10-17 | 05:50 PM
  • I'll share a story with you. When I was in the boarding school, we were three roommates. This one night, one of us (not me) had a date. Her boyfriend and she booked a room at a near hotel. She came back late at night. We asked her about it. This is what she said, "he had the erection for like 60 seconds... damn." We were like 'that doesn't even count', right? WRONG. That's all it took. The following week she had the symptoms appear. Anyway, in your case, only the man knows if he really came inside you or not. I hope he is honest with you. I also hope you will be fine
  • EmmaLK 11-22-17 | 06:41 PM
  • Wow, you are so young. I wish I could start thinking of pregnancy earlier. My baby was born when I was 44. I know that it's late enough. But I had no choice. We spent so many years ttc. Unfortunately we had no success. We tried a lot of treatments and even IVF. We couldn't conceive for a long time. I had to go for surrogacy because of my age and fertility problems. As you are still so young, you have a chance to conceive naturally. Medicine is really developed nowadays. Consult your fertility specialist and try to figure out the problem. If you need some treatment, go ahead. I'm sure you will find the solution dear. Support each other and keep trying.
  • phoeben 12-04-17 | 06:24 PM
  • Hi, dear. It's so great that you decided to have kids being so young. I always dreamed to be a young mother. My husband and me started ttc when we were 21. After 6 years with no result we decided to ask for help. We visited a lot of fertility specialists. I've gone through lots of treatments. We've gone through 3 rounds of IVF. Nothing helped us to conceive. A lot of people were talking about surrogacy. We lost our hope to conceive naturally that's why we decided to try it out. We visited a lot of reproduction centers. The one, which offered us the most affordable price was BioTexCom. First of all surrogacy is legal in Ukraine. It makes this process much easier. Secondly, this service is pretty expensive. We really wanted to enter the VIP program. Of course, it is the most expensive one. But it guarantees the positive result. We had to save a little to do it. But I'm glad that we did it.
    We signed an agreement and entered the program in 1 month. They found the surrogate for us and transferred the embryo. In 9 months our baby boy was born. It was the happiest day of my life. My dream came true.
    My main recommendation for you is to visit the reproduction center. You have to know for sure what is the reason of your infertility. Then you will find the most appropriate solution. You are very young and you still have a chance to conceive. Just don't give up and everything will be fine.