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Old 11-02-04, 05:11 PM
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Default I've lost it

I seriously think infertility has destroyed my life and happiness. I have lost so many relationships, and continue to do so because I the pain of being around others and watching or hearing about their happieness kills me. I think if I have any heart left after the past 7 years it's probably only seen with a microscope. I want a new life.. I'm sick of this one.
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Old 11-02-04, 05:28 PM
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I can relate, sweetie. I have just recently become consciously aware of how much this has affected me. I am a different person now than I was 3 years ago, and I resent it. Of course I expected my life to change with the arrival of a child, but I never bargained for this.

Hang in there.

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Old 11-02-04, 05:35 PM
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I'm so sorry..
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Old 11-02-04, 05:48 PM
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ooooh Suzanne, you and I are the same. I had a friend sit me down at the beginning of this school year and tell me how different I had become, and she was right. I'm very jaded now. I thought I was getting better, but with the news of another pg teamate I lost it again. I haven't been at this as long as you, but I know how you're feeling right now. We're all here for you to vent, but I know it's not the same as being in person. When I get bad I try to think of all the good things I have, if I can let myself think that way. Sometimes, I know it's hard to see any good in life. Big hugs your way...

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Old 11-02-04, 10:06 PM
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Oh Susanne, I hate to hear you in so much pain. It's not fair at all. No-one should have to go through what you have had to and are still going through.

I believe that your heart will be strong again, perhaps when you've got through the worst of the grieving process... there is too much love in you to be completely extinguished by this.

I relate to the fact that IF hurts more than just this one aspect of who we are - it infects our friendships, our attitude towards our bodies... it sucks big time, you're so right.
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