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  • KellyAnn KellyAnn's Avatar 11-04-04 | 08:31 PM
  • Susanne - I am so sorry it is so hard - I think of you often and hope that one day you find peace. Have you read "When Bad things happen to Good People?" That book really helped me. I am constantly sending good thoughts to you and Bryan.

    If you ever need anything at all please let me know.

  • cdcarter cdcarter's Avatar 11-05-04 | 10:03 AM
  • I'm so sorry you are feeling so alone and beaten down right now. I have no advice. But you are in my thoughts.

  • mac71 mac71's Avatar 11-05-04 | 12:52 PM

    I know how hard this is and I know how hard it is to keep up the pretence of being happy with life when inside you are falling apart. I wish I knew or understood why we have to go through this and even then it still wouldn't make it easier or alright.

    I've noticed lately that its affecting my dreams - I'm dreaming of people I know having babies and me breaking down and I know its a result of me not expressing my feelings during my waking hours. IF affects everything about us and changes us forever. I hope you find peace soon sweetie, you at least deserve that.
  • Tracey and Neil Tracey and Neil's Avatar 11-07-04 | 07:00 AM
  • My Dear Susanne,

    Rest assured you are not alone. I too have driven people away from me because I find their succeses too painful to share. When I look at the life we had before we started TTC it was good, we went out, we shared the company of friends and I held newborns with the kind of warmth and awe and joy that are now faded memories.

    Attitudes, ignorance, and even some music lyrics now all bring bitterness into my heart.

    But we have to hold onto the hope that it can happen to us, that one day we'll hear those words we so long to hear "I love you Mummy".

    Only a few more days to go hon ((((((((hugz)))))))))))
  • Tamsin Tamsin's Avatar 11-08-04 | 07:21 AM

    Sending huge hugs Susanne

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