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Old 03-04-09, 10:07 PM
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Angry just need to vent!

Well this is supposed to be TCC Cycle11 but DH is going to be out of town all next week! When it comes to meeting my year mark can i count this month even if we are not able to bd? I don't know but i dont want to tell him that i am o'ing next week b/c he is going out of town to take a test for a job and i don't want to stress him anymore than he already is...but i was hoping for him to fly down on the 10th and return on the 13th so we could BD starting as soon as he gets home...but i guess he is going to drive down with his parents, they will go to visit his brother, on the 9th and not return until the 15th...maybe if i stress enough i will o late
 
i guess that could work....but anyway i am so disappointed! I think this month would give me an EDD in DECEMBER, and i would love that since that was my mom's b-day month and also the month we lost her in! UGH....why does it have to be so hard, i was thinking maybe i wasn't ment to get PG until the due date would be like this....but now i am even doubting that!
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Old 03-04-09, 10:14 PM
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Yes, count it, whether you can bd or not. You've paid your dues now. Sorry it's not working out the way you thought it would.
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Old 03-05-09, 02:40 PM
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We all know how frustrating these things can be....we get these nice little scenarios in our heads and then when we don't get pregnant yet again- it is just that much the worse. Just know that when you finally do get pregnant- that it doesn't matter when it happens- it will be special no matter what. I learned that lesson and it is the truth! And, like Jeanne said I would count it as well. Good luck!
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Things have a way of working themselves out so you never know! Hold on to every little piece of hope...we've all been there!
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Old 03-07-09, 05:47 PM
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In the 10 years we were TTC, I passed way too many 'would be great to conceive now because...' milestones. In the end it doesn't matter when it happens, because when it does you'll be making your own special events.

If DH is going to be out of town, then why not make this month a time for you to do all the things you can't usually do? Have that cup of caffeinated tea/coffee, have that glass of wine, take that hot bath, take the chance to not count what CD you're on. Take this as an opportunity to refresh your mind, and prepare yourself for next cycle.

Wishing you lots of luck for next cycle
 
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