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Unhappy A little vent... or something...

Last month I ended up getting the flu around the time of O, i *think* I O'ed after I was sick, but I'm not completely sure, it might have been the day I was sick and didn't feel at ALL like BDing, and dh doesn't understand why (I told him HE would have been cleaning up the mess
This month, before this afternoon (before dh left for work), we hadn't BDed since Monday night (ok, EARLY Tues morning) and dh was gettin kinda cranky which I can understand, he's used to getting it nearly daily (besides when AF is in town.) BUT now he's starting to think I don't really want to have another baby bc of the timing for two months in a row.

FIRST of all, I can't exactly help getting sick, no matter what time of the month it is. SECOND, I didn't FEEL like dtd the other night and I certainly should not have to wake up at 3 in the morning when he gets home frmo work to dtd. HE is the one that signed up for extra hours this week so
(ok, THAT is a bit childish of me, but that's how I happen to feel

But, now of course he has me wonderign if my subcounscious is trying to tell me I don't really want to have another baby right now. I'm starting to doubt my self and my thoughts and I'm just plain confused! I WANT to have another baby to the point where I get upset each month when AF shows up, but then why wouldn't I feel like dtd on the best days of the month? Like I said, I'm as confused as they come right now and any thoughts or advice would be very much appreciated.
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