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Old 12-12-04, 02:05 PM
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Unhappy Really scared today

Up until yesterday I hadn't had any pain with this pregnancy, but last night and this morning I've had the same sharp pains that I had before, just not quite as bad or as often. I'm also having some very minor cramps. Today is the equivalent of the day I started bleeding with my first pregnancy, and I'm scared out of my mind. If I lose this baby, not only will I have to deal with another loss, but it will mean that I definitely have fertility problems. My insurance doesn't cover infertility, and we certainly don't have enough money to pay for things on our own, so this is the end of the road if things go downhill. Please, if you pray, please pray that I won't lose this baby. I'm feeling so desperate right now.

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Old 12-12-04, 02:30 PM
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Sweetie I am sorry you are so scared. Believe me I know how you feel, and I have even had one successful pg. Aches and cramping are very normal in early pg. That little bean is burrowing into your lining for a long stay. If you are not bleeding with the cramping that is very normal. There is a lot going on down there, try to remember that.

On another note. My insurance co doesn't cover infertility either, however, my perinatologist put my diagnosis down as recurrent pregnancy loss and my insurance covered EVERYTHING including the over $5,000 dollars worth of testing I had done.

I wont tell you not to worry because I know that is impossible, just try to take it easy. I am thinking of you.
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Old 12-12-04, 04:58 PM
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ohh my goodness, i m sorry that you are going thru this scary time...valleygirl seems to have some good advice...unfortunately, i do not lol but i do hope everything terns out okay!
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Old 12-12-04, 05:27 PM
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You know we're all here for you, please keep us updated...
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Old 12-12-04, 08:12 PM
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Prayers are being said for you and you are in my thoughts. Please let us know how you're doing.
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