After 8.5 weeks of being thrilled to b pregnant, we had to go to the hospital yesterday b/c I was bleeding. They did a u/s and I saw the baby... with no heartbeat. I'm bleeding b/c I'm miscarrying. We're trying hard to get through this so that as soon as I'm physically able, we can try again. It really sucks. Any advice from anyone who has been through this? How to get through it? How long you wait to try again? I'm not sure how long it's going to be before this is all said and done since I decided to let it complete naturally vs. having a d&c. If anyone has any info, I would appreciate it. Thanks and God bless!

I haven't been through that but just wanted to send you hugs and prayers.

I am so sorry for your loss and am sending hugs and prayers as well. I know many women on this site who have been though similar tragedy's and I am sure they will offer some great support. I am just so, so very sorry.

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I'm sorry to hear this sad news. I've had 5 miscarriages so I can definitely sympathize with how you might be feeling right now.

Just take things one day (or one hour/minute) at a time and allow yourself to experience the emotions you'll have. Don't try to keep feelings bottled; live your feelings.

As far as trying again, that's mostly up to you. Your doc will probably recommend waiting a couple of cycles but most docs concur that it is not always necessary to wait.
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So listen to your body and heart as far as trying again is concerned.

Please know that there are many of us here at TBC who have experienced losses and we are here for you if you have any questions or just want to vent.
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Know that my thoughts are with you.
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Oh my I am so very sorry to hear your sad news.
I also have experienced the grief associated with losing a baby. You are in my thoughts. Give it time and you will know when you are ready to try again.