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Old 10-03-04, 03:52 PM
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You know, I've sort of given up on ttc, at least till later this month when we go to the doc to find out what we're going to do. So, that has relieved some stress in my life. Thank goodness cause I've got a ton of stress elsewhere...

We took on a roomate at the end of July cause he was a friend of ours and needed a place to stay. He just moved to the area and was short on money. As a teacher, we get paid once a month and a month behind, so he needed a break. No biggie, right?

Well, between his two dogs that pee on my floor and his absolute lack of help I'm about to go nuts!! He does not pick up dog poop, he puts his dishes in the sink, not the dishwasher nor does he have the sense to mow the yard. ugh. DH has been gone since Wednesday leaving me with everything. Not usually a big deal but for some reason I'm just having a hard time with him not doing anything. We're having a big shin dig next weekend for OU TX and so today I was working on the yard (trimming bushes, planting flowers etc.) He brought his beer out and talked to me and then asked if I could use my tolltag while he goes to watch the game. Unbelievable. I called DH all stressed out and he promptly turned around and called him and said hey, LeAnne is getting a little stressed out, do you think you could help her this week while I'm gone. Jeff acted like he didn't know what DH was talking about!!!
 
"all she has to do is ask..." BS, I shouldn't have to ask, you're living here FOR FREE. You're payment is your help around here! Nov. 1 can't come soon enough...

ok that's it. Thanks for reading. I know it has nothing to do with ttc, but I've about had it!
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Old 10-03-04, 04:16 PM
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you are very patient! i would have freaked out by now too. have a great party next weekend. it should be fun. my team (tech) just isn't doing too great. well, just wanted to say hello
 
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Old 10-03-04, 04:33 PM
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it should be fun, I hope! hope you're feeling well!!
 
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Old 10-04-04, 06:30 PM
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Oh man I couldn't even imagine anyone one else living with us- especially someone that just made a mess and didn't clean up after themselves. Come on.. I already DH and DS to clean up after
 
Hope you feel better soon!
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Old 10-04-04, 08:20 PM
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I think I would go with writing him a note about the dogs, the yard, cleaning up, etc. That way you don't have to directly confront him, you can say everything you need to say/ ask for without being interrupted, and you can take the time to carefully choose the way you word everything. Just leave it on the fridge or something.
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