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re experiencing this. I've gone through the same rollercoaser of emotions during my five miscarriages.
Oreo is right--there's no prescribed amount of time that it will take to feel "better" or "whole" again. Unfortunately, you'll always have a piece of that baby with you. But I can tell you that with time, comes healing. Don't mistake the word "healing" for "forgetting"--that never happens. But I received assurance over time and have healed the wholes in my "Mommy heart". They'll always be scabbed but at least they'
re not so raw.
These moments are not the time to be discussing what to do next.
To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 15 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. Now is the time to be comforting one another and allowing yourselves to grieve. When there are more sunny days than dark days, you can start the conversations but vow to make no decisions right away.
I always counted my losses on the days I had a D&C or when I knew I'd passed the baby. For me, it was that definitive moment so I needed that mark in time. For each woman, that time is different--and you'll need to make that choice for yourself. I always held out hope until that last second so I didn't count that baby as gone until it was truly gone.
Again, you have my deepest sympathies and
if you need to talk, please feel free to PM me.
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