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Prepare for an Easy Delivery

Lori Ramsey


Pregnancy brings on a lot of new changes in your body. Whether or not it took you a long time to conceive - you are no doubt excited about finally being pregnant and looking forward to the day that your baby will be placed into your loving arms. But that day can bring on certain fears - of the unknown - especially if you've never experienced birth before. But relax, there are things you can do to prepare for that day - whether you are planning a home birth, a hospital birth - going at it naturally - allowing an epidural or even planning a cesarean.

The best advice I can give for preparation for the delivery day is education. Read all you can on the process of labor and birth. Ignorance is not the blissful way of approaching such an important milestone in your life. Knowledge of what your body will be going through on that day will greatly help to alleviate the stress and fear of childbirth. There are countless books, magazines, true-life TV shows and websites that are chocked full of information.

Take a childbirth class. This is a great way to have the opportunity to ask questions and to learn what you are to go through. It's also beneficial - because you will choose a childbirth class that will narrow down to the type of birth you wish to experience. I am very thankful for the 2 different childbirth classes I took with my first 2 children.

Exercise. This will benefit your body in more than one way. Find an exercise that is approved by your healthcare provider. Exercising during pregnancy will not only prepare your body for labor and delivery - it will give you a leg up on loosing that pregnancy weight after the baby arrives. Exercise will greatly help labor and birth to be easier and possibly quicker.

Do the perineum massage. This will help to possibly avoid an episiotomy. About 6 weeks before your due date - take some (vegetable, olive or vitamin E) oil or some type of lubrication on two (clean) thumbs (with trimmed nails) put pressure toward your rectum - at the perineum - about to the first knuckle of your finger until it burns - about 2 minutes. Then gently massage and stretch the area for about one to five minutes. You will build up to this - as it strengthens and conditions the perineum for birth. Finally gently massage the tissues between your thumb and forefinger back and forth for one minute. Do this every night - you can even have your partner do this to add some spice! Learn the methods of helping to move labor along. Had I known this with my first pregnancy I believe my labor wouldn't have had to be induced. I simply laid there - not knowing that I could get up - or at the very least to even turn over in bed to help augment labor. Instead I got the maximum Pitocin drip (the drug used to cause uterine contractions) and ended up having to have my water broken. If you are able - walking and moving around - changing positions will greatly help labor to advance.

Another good thing on making labor and delivery easier is to practice your breathing exercises that you learned in childbirth class. Whether it is Lamaze or Bradley - these will help you to relax and remain calm - even if you are having a cesarean.

Knowing what you are headed into will be the most effective way of easing labor and delivery. That will knock out the fear of the unknown and prepare you for what to expect. Even if things don't go as planned - which happens sometimes so prepare for it.

Write a birth plan and go over it with your doctor or midwife. Make sure to be flexible and open to the possibility that you may have to change a few things. This way you will know for sure what actions will be taken once labor hits and there will be no surprises. Leave room in the birth plan for the unexpected too - such as emergency cesareans.

Give all this advice some thought and try to relax. Mentally go over your big day in your mind - going over all possible situations - this will help to prepare for the "what-ifs." If your childbirth class does not include a tour of your hospital or go over hospital procedures (if you plan on giving birth in a hospital) then make arrangements to tour the labor and delivery unit at your hospital and ask the nurse to go over all the things that could possibly happen with you once you are checked in. This will help to familiarize yourself for the big event and help you to better visualize the big day.

Above all, talk to your doctor or midwife at length about any concerns or questions you may have. Don't be afraid to find out all you can - as fear is the base of stress and stress can make the labor and birth hard. Knowledge erases fear. Look forward to the day with confidence and assurance that you are as ready as can be.

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My name is Lori Ramsey. My education consists of a diploma in Business Data Processing. I also successfully completed two courses with the Famous Writers School on Basic Writing and Fiction Writing. I am a mother of two children ages 4 and 2. I am currently pregnant with my third child, due to be born in early November.

Embarking on first conception then parenting, I realize how ignorant I was at the beginning. Knowledge is power and since I have literally devoured books, magazines, and online articles on the subject of conception and pregnancy. I honestly feel I know more than the average "public" about this subject. And was shocked at how little I actually didn't know before!

My hobbies, as such, revolve around being a mother and a wife. Being a writer has been a long time dream - even to the point that I have written 16 chapters in a fiction novel and numerous articles (non published). And at present, I am focused on my pregnancy, enjoying each moment and loving the expressions on my children's faces as my belly grows. I am involved in my church, working with the nursery and am one of the leaders of the worship dance ministry. And lastly, but certainly not least, I love surfing the web!

Lori is a Contributing writer for The Baby Corner as well as for Suite 101 Preconception: Trying To Conceive.

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kaeroa Jun 20, 2012 10:48:24 AM ET

Actually i want ask a question,would you mind: - what about if you already due and still you haven't deliver?will the baby or the mother die or something will wrong to the baby??

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Rikki Aug 16, 2010 05:35:11 AM ET

Hey i read your info and it has helped me lots and made me feel very comfortable about giving birth even at such a younge age . i'm only 16 very excited but also very nervous . i'm worried about how people will judge me ! i don't live with my family i only live with my friends so i haven't told my family yet cause i'm worried about what their reation will be ! but i'm going to see them at chrissy and by then they will be shocked to see that i'll have a baby with me i'm wanting to name her nevaeh sounded lil na-vay- ha .. heaven back ter front :)

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