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Should i do it?

Should i do it?

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  • bethany1787 01-23-10 | 07:36 PM
  • Ok. My fiance an I already have one son. He will be 2 in april. He doesn't want any more kids and he knows I plan to have 1 more. I'm ready now. I want the 2 kids to be kinda close. Should I stop my bc and not tell him? Or should I tell him and risk him keeping a big distance from me? I desperatly need an outsider's opinion!
  • CarolleZ CarolleZ's Avatar 01-23-10 | 07:38 PM
  • I would NOT do anything without telling him! You should discuss with him your desire for another child in the near future and work something out.
  • cshannon91 01-23-10 | 07:44 PM
  • agreed.! Wear the pants in the relationship
    tell him you plan on having another child and would like to well get it done and over with because you want them to be close in age..

    sit down with him and maybe make a list of reasons why to have another one and why not! once he see's the more reasons to have another one lets hope he sides with you
  • Liz_l Liz_l's Avatar 01-23-10 | 07:48 PM
  • I agree completely with the first 2 posters.
  • bethany1787 01-23-10 | 07:56 PM
  • See he is incredibly stubborn and immature. He just says no and doesn't hear me out. I want my kids to have the same dad. I basically raised Dustin on my own! While I was waitressing full time! He didn't help me at all til he was almost a year so y should he care so much? Its not gonna be his burden. If he knows I want another he won't touch me.

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