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  • :domesticgoddess: :domesticgoddess:'s Avatar 09-15-05 | 01:20 PM
  • The Cost of a Child

    I have repeatedly seen the breakdown of the cost of raising a child, but
    this is the first time I have seen the rewards listed this way. It's nice,
    really nice!

    The government recently calculated the cost of raising a child from birth
    to 18 and came up with $160,140.00 for a middle income family. Talk about
    sticker shock! That doesn't even touch college tuition.

    But $160,140 isn't so bad if you break it down. It translates into $8,896 a
    year, $741.38 a month, or $171.08 a week. That's a mere $24.24

    a day! Just over a dollar an hour.

    Still, you might think the best financial advice says don't have children
    if you want to be "rich." It is just the opposite.

    What do your get for your $160,140?

    Naming rights: First, middle, and last!

    Glimpses of God everyday.

    Giggles under the covers every night.

    More love than your heart can hold.

    Butterfly kisses and Velcro hugs.

    Endless wonder over rocks, ants, clouds, and warm cookies.

    A hand to hold, usually covered with jam.

    A partner for blowing bubbles, flying kites, building sand castles, and
    skipping down the sidewalk in the pouring rain.

    Someone to laugh yourself silly with no matter what the boss said or how
    your stocks performed that day.

    For $160,140, you never have to grow up.

    You get to fingerpaint, carve pumpkins, play hide-and-seek, catch lightning
    bugs, and never stop believing in Santa Claus.

    You have an excuse to keep reading the Adventures of Piglet and Pooh,
    watching Saturday morning cartoons, going to Disney Land, and wishing on
    stars.

    You get to frame rainbows, hearts, and flowers under refrigerator magnets
    and collect spray painted noodle wreaths for Christmas, hand prints set in
    clay for Mother's Day, and cards with backward letters for Father's Day.

    For $160,140, there is no greater bang for your buck.

    You get to be a hero just for retrieving a Frisbee off the garage roof,
    taking the training wheels off the bike, removing a splinter, filling a
    wading pool, coaxing a wad of gum out of bangs, and coaching a baseball team
    that never wins but always gets treated to ice cream regardless.

    You get a front row seat to history to witness the first step, first word,
    first bra, first date, and first time behind the wheel. You get to
    be immortal.

    You get another branch added to your family tree, and if you're lucky, a
    long list of limbs in your obituary called grandchildren.

    You get an education in psychology, nursing, criminal justice,
    communications, and human sexuality that no college can match.

    In the eyes of a child, you rank right up there with God. You have all the
    power to heal a booboo, scare away the monsters under the bed, patch a
    broken heart, police a slumber party, ground them forever, and love them
    without limits, so one day they will, like you, love without counting the
    cost.
  • MImom23 MImom23's Avatar 09-15-05 | 02:15 PM
  • thanks tracey that is great
  • Dopey406 Dopey406's Avatar 09-15-05 | 03:09 PM

  •  
    : Thanks, Tracy! I love that!
  • hklord hklord's Avatar 09-15-05 | 05:12 PM
  • Thats great
  • Eskie Eskie's Avatar 09-15-05 | 11:45 PM
  • Nice touch and great post

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